Monday, April 7

April is child abuse awareness month .What is going on in North Carolina?

North Carolina: illegal aliens charged with 250 child molestations in March 2014

List on the link below  contains 251 offenses ( many of these criminal aliens are now out of jail only to re-offend on the same crimes ) there were several more recorded in February 2014 .
 So we ask ourselves these questions . For politicians saying they vote on bills to protect America's children , that write bills to protect America's children, they amend bills to protect America's children then why do they, along with the media , press and press statements of elected officials and those no longer in office : Why do they remain chillingly silent on these deplorable crimes? When is this going to stop and  how many more children will have to suffer because of illegal immigration?

Are you going to fight  for  people and their families affected by crimes due to the Obama administration's refusal to stop illegal immigration ?  You can  contact Senator Kay Hagen here on this link email or telephone numbers are on this link  Senator  Hagen voted yes to  the senate immigration bill  while choosing to ignore  these crimes against children .Please  contact  senator Hagen and ask why she refuses to do something in her state about these innocent children being sexually assaulted and why she is hell - bent on amnesty for many of these men becoming US citizens . Thank You .

Sunday, March 23

Illegal aliens charged with 150 child molestations in North Carolina last month- North Carolina residents please read and act

Senator Kay Hagan voted yes to amnesty . She is up for re-election November  email her to show her this page , request a phone call back . Hagan doesn't seem to want to 'bothered' with protecting America's children .Demand an answer why she does not mind legalizing the criminals and their behavior below. This is OUTRAGEOUS ! (Please copy and paste the paragraphs below ,click the contact link above and paste all you have copied) Demand she or her staff   call you .

In the month of February 2014, there were 154 counts of child sex crimes brought against illegal aliens in counties across the state of North Carolina. That figure does not include all arrests of illegal aliens for similar charges, nor does it include conviction or sentencing data for those in the state illegally.

The citizen advocacy group known as NCFIRE provided this reporter with a list of illegal aliens who were charged with sex crimes against children in various counties across the state of North Carolina.
What follows is a list of illegal aliens who were arraigned on child sex charges in North Carolina last month:
County: Mecklenburg
Arraigned: 02/03/2014
Charge(s): Indecent liberties w/child
County: Mecklenburg
Arraigned: 02/03/2014
Charge(s): First-degree sexual offense w/ a child, indecent liberties w/child
County: Watauga
Arraigned: 02/17/2014
Charge(s): Seven counts of first-degree sexual offense w/child, nine counts of indecent liberties w/child, two counts of statutory rape
County: Nash
Arraigned: 02/10/2014
Charge(s): First-degree statutory rape, first-degree sexual offense w/child, indecent liberties w/child
County: Surry
Arraigned: 02/11/2014
Charge(s): Indecent liberties w/child
County: Union
Arraigned: 02/05/201
Charge(s): 13 counts of indecent liberties w/child
County: Wake
Arraigned: 02/03/2014
Charge(s): Three counts of first-degree sexual offense w/child, four counts of indecent liberties w/child
County: Wake
Arraigned: 02/03/2014
Charge(s): Indecent liberties w/child
County: Wake
Arraigned: 02/03/2014
Charge(s): Sexual servitude/child victim
County: Lee
Arraigned: 02/03/20
Charge(s): Two counts of indecent liberties w/child
County: Onslow
Arraigned: 02/17/2014
Charge(s): 11 counts of indecent liberties w/child, five counts of first-degree sexual offense w/child, three counts of statutory rape, three counts of crime against nature, felony child abuse
County: Onslow
Arraigned: 02/17/2014
Charge(s): 11 counts of indecent liberties w/child, three counts of first-degree sexual offense w/child, crime against nature, first-degree rape
County: Durham
Arraigned: 02/17/2014
Charge(s): Nine counts indecent liberties w/child, two counts of statutory rape, two counts of statutory sex offense of a child, crime against nature, incest
County: Person
Arraigned: 02/10/2014
Charge(s): Statutory rape
County: Carteret
Arraigned: 02/18/2014
Charge(s): First-degree rape of a child, attempted second-degree rape, incest
County: Wake
Arraigned: 02/17/2014
Charge(s): First-degree rape, first-degree sexual offense, indecent liberties w/child
County: Rockinham
Arraigned: 02/18/2014
Charge(s): Sex offender w/child on premises
County: Wake
Arraigned: 02/24/2014
Charge(s): Four counts of indecent liberties w/child, four counts of statutory rape
County: Sampson
Arraigned: 02/17/2014
Charge(s): Six counts of indecent liberties w/child, four counts of statutory rape, two counts of first-degree sexual offense, two counts of first-degree rape
County: Moore
Arraigned: 02/25/2014
Charge(s): Two counts of first-degree sexual offense w/child, two counts of indecent liberties w/child, assault on a child, two counts of sexual battery, crime against nature, incest
County: Catawba
Arraigned: 02/24/2014
Charge(s): Indecent liberties w/child
County: Wake
Arraigned: 02/24/2014
Charge(s): Four counts of first-degree sexual offense w/child, rape of a child
The Tarheel state is simply under siege by foreign criminals, with the obvious target being the state's most vulnerable citizens...its children.
The fact that the age of sexual consent throughout the majority of Mexico is only 12 years of age, is likely the chief culprit behind this human rights crisis.
You see, many of those Mexican men who enter this nation illegally, not only bring with them cheap labor, but an incredibly misogynous culture as well.
Don't expect to ever hear this type of analysis from those in the mainstream press, it simply does not fit their propagandized version of the 'poor migrant worker' or 'DREAMER,' simply "seeking out a better life for his family."

entire article from Dave Gibson immigration examiner was copied and pasted  here

Tuesday, January 14

Chicago Catholic priests molestation new case

"Once again, I apologize to all those who have been harmed by these crimes and this scandal, the victims themselves, most certainly, but also rank and file Catholics who have been shamed by the actions of some priests and bishops. Thank you and God bless you."
— Conclusion of a public letter from Cardinal Francis George to Catholics of the Archdiocese of Chicago.
The anguish of victims, the crimes of perpetrators, the humiliation of innocent clerics who've been tarred by association — the turbulent legacy of clergy sexual abuse within the Archdiocese of Chicago soon will reopen. The archdiocese this week is to release to an attorney for abuse victims the previously undisclosed files of substantiated cases involving 30 current and former priests. Eventually the records will be posted online.
We've seen none of these documents and won't hazard guesses about their contents or the reactions they will stir. By some measures there will not be surprises

Read the rest of this scandal on the link below

Friday, January 10

Pedophile Louis "Skip" ReVille, updated news on his 50 year sentence

When I first  blogged this event I had no idea how huge this would be . ReVille has caused so much misery and untold life changes to the boys that he sexually molested. His wife  was pregnant with twins at the time this story broke .

His trial come around and I will never forget one young man saying in the court room . 'I am not sure if I will commit suicide ''...This was relayed on twitter by a local reporter and news / crime television station .

My heart  really was sick when it was relayed what this young man said when giving his testimony and impact statement after ReVille's trial ... He had a choice to stop sexually abusing young men ( he groomed some with pornography also ) and to get help . Why ? He also taught school at a Christian secondary school and he could have told someone that he had abused boys at the onset of his crimes ! But he did not and made many victims of those he willingly sought out and molested. 

Here is the latest ....

Citadel asks court to dismiss abuse complaint

Last month, a now-25-year-old alleged victim sued The Citadel, saying he was abused on 21 different occasions by Michael Arpaio and that others at the school knew about the activity but did not stop it. School attorneys have said they would defend against the accusations. No hearings have been scheduled.
The Citadel closed its summer camp after reaching a nearly $4 million settlement with five campers who said Arpaio, a former Marine captain, abused them between 1995 and 2001.
Arpaio pleaded guilty to multiple charges in 2003 following a military court-martial and served 15 months at the Charleston Naval Brig. Court records show Arpaio was ultimately sentenced to serve more than 12 years in federal prison after pleading guilty to a carjacking charge in 2012.
According to the lawsuit, Arpaio attended The Citadel from 1993 until 1997 and worked at the summer camp for seven years, starting in 1995.
The unidentified camper was at the Citadel for three weeks each summer from 1998 to 2000. During that time, the lawsuit alleges, campers often stayed in Arpaio's room, where they were exposed to pornography, alcohol and sexual abuse.
Camp officials knew that Arpaio was molesting campers and regularly taking some of them to his private apartment but never reported the activity, according to the lawsuit, which also says camp counselors weren't given adequate training regarding sexual misconduct or assault.
In 2012, another former counselor was sentenced to 50 years in prison after a separate sex abuse scandal. Louis "Skip" ReVille, a Citadel graduate and former teacher who worked at schools, camps, churches and recreation programs in the Charleston area, pleaded guilty to 22 abuse counts.


Read the rest here 


Thursday, January 2

One area woman located, one still missing-- Heather Elvis Myrtle Beach,SC

 Heather Elvis is still missing as of today January 2, 2014 . Please notify authorities ( 911) if you  see someone that looks like Heather ! Her family is frantic to find her !!
A Myrtle Beach woman who was reported missing on Christmas Day called police Thursday to say she is safe.
The call from Jamie Lynn Cross’ came around 6 p.m., about a week after she was reported missing to Horry County Police, and a day before the launch of a weekend-long search for another Myrtle Beach-area woman Heather Elvis – missing since Dec. 17.

Heather Elvis story is here

Greenville,SC arrest New Years Eve 2013 minor sexual assault

 A Charlotte man has been charged with having sex with a 14-year-old girl at a Greenville County hotel overnight on New Year’s Eve, authorities said.Alex Anthony Byrd, 45, of 10730 Four Mile Creek Road, is charged with criminal sexual conduct with a minor, kidnapping and contributing to the delinquency of a minor, according to warrants.

read the rest here

Wednesday, January 1

Listing of where to find help for those who have been sexually abused

Where to find help

Darkness to Light®
Darkness to Light's mission is to shift responsibility for preventing child sexual abuse from children to adults by providing information on how to prevent, recognize and react responsibly to child sexual abuse.

Love Our Children USA
Love Our Children USA is the national nonprofit leader in breaking the cycle of violence against children.  Since 1999, Love Our Children USA has paved the way in the prevention of all forms of violence and neglect against children, keeping children safe and strengthening families.

National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC)
NCMEC is a public-private partnership serving as a national clearinghouse for information on missing children and the prevention of child victimization.  NCMEC works in conjunction with the U.S. Department of Justice’s Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention.

RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) is the nation's largest anti-sexual assault organization.  RAINN created the National Sexual Assault Hotlines, which it operates in partnership with more than 1,100 local rape crisis centers across the country. RAINN also carries out programs to prevent sexual assault, help victims and ensure that rapists are brought to justice.

Stop It Now!®
Stop It Now! offers adults the tools they need to prevent sexual abuse before a child is harmed. They provide support, information and resources that enable individuals and families to keep children safe and create healthier communities. In collaboration with a network of community-based programs, they reach out to adults who are concerned about their own or others’ sexualized behavior toward children.

Stop the Silence: Stop Child Sexual Abuse, Inc.®
Stop the Silence works with others toward the prevention and treatment of child sexual abuse. The worldwide mission of Stop the Silence is to expose and stop child sexual abuse, help survivors heal, and celebrate the lives of those healed.

Since 1959 Childhelp has been dedicated to the treatment and prevention of child abuse and neglect.  Childhelp's National Child Abuse Hotline operates 24/7/365 with highly trained counselors, and receives 200,000 calls per year from children, parents, concerned adults and professionals.  Childhelp's Good-Touch/Bad-Touch prevention program reaches over 90,000 children annually in 42 states and 14 countries.

Innocence Revolution ( our organization)

The Leadership Team

Jill Starishevsky – Co-Founder

Jill Starishevsky has been a prosecutor in New York City since 1997, where she has prosecuted hundreds of sex offenders and dedicated her career to seeking justice for victims of child abuse and sex crimes. In October 2006, Jill launched, the first online nanny reporting service that works to keep children safe by enabling parents to receive positive and negative feedback on their child’s caregiver. Jill is also the author of “My Body Belongs to Me,” a children’s book intended to prevent child sexual abuse by teaching 3- to 8-year-olds their bodies are private.  Featured on “The Oprah Winfrey Show,” Jill is a prevention specialist who, through media appearances and public speaking events, teaches how to recognize and prevent child sexual abuse.

Dr. Pamela Pine

Pamela Pine, PhD, MPH, has more than 30 years of experience as a designer, developer and manager of health  related programs. She has designed and managed local, national and international public health, medical, education and communication programs, as well as economic development and policy-related endeavors under government, foundation and corporate-funded programs.  She is the Founder of Stop the Silence: Stop Child Sexual Abuse, Inc., which has a primary focus on bringing international attention to eliminating CSA. Pam has been working internationally for over 30 years, and brings her wealth of international experience and her language acumen to various endeavors including the Executive Committee for the International Conference on Violence, Abuse and Trauma.

 Alex Vorobej, International Director

Alex has a long-standing history of involvement with Not for Profit Organizations, including his current position as Vice President at Voice Found. The mandate of Voice Found is the prevention of childhood sexual abuse and the support of adult survivors.
Alex is also a Founding Member, and Director of Operations of the West Carleton First Response Unit, past president of both the West Carleton Firefighters’ Association and the Canadian Association of Aeromedical Transport Systems (CAATS). He was also a Co-Founder, and Past President of the Canadian Aerospace Medicine Aeromedical Transport Association (CAMATA), a Board Member, Lanark County Open Doors for Youth (Mental Health Services) and a Board Member and Facilitator, Lanark County Youth Criminal Justice Services.  Alex is also the former Manager of the Eastern Ontario Air Ambulance program and a former Army Officer with the Canadian Armed Forces, now a current Naval Reserve Officer.
His hobbies include teaching music, reading, competitive shooting, and spending time outdoors.

Jill on Oprah clip below and the book My body belongs to me

Jill ( on our board at on Oprah . You will see how Jill 's book  "My body belongs to me" Can help explain to young children what is acceptable touching  and what is not . I highly recommend a look here
Here is a review on My Body belongs to me ...
"This sensitive, creative book about a very tough topic is a must-read for parents and their young children."

- Ann Pleshette Murphy, Parenting Contributor, "Good Morning America."

Friday, May 17

As you can see by reading  the above link , there are many dynamics and factors  involved  in child sexual abuse .
Though they may be somewhat universal  in some areas ( depression , substance abuse , problematic relationships across the board this does not mean  that  every person affected will experience the same things and many  will have different levels of being  affected by the abuse 

The subject  of child sexual abuse  or child molestation is not a subject that many in our society are very comfortable in talking about . Some of this may be due to the cultural  factors  that someone comes out of  .For example : In a certain belief system ,often seen in middle eastern cultures, sexual activity of any kind may shame the woman's family .Even the slightest  inference of any 'sexual inappropriateness' ( eg a  rape or  hinted pregnancy ) the family may use violence, threats, and even death  to stop the name of the family from any shame the women is perceived to have caused.
Statistics are alarming..One out of every four women are sexually abused as children and one out six men are .
 Even if the perpetrator is deceased it may not be easy  for the person who was violated to try and get some help 
because they may feel like the event(s) that happened are still unsolvable, and flashbacks and resentment  may still be there
In the  next  writing we will explore  some actual  tips , stories and  links to help you , someone that  you  kno0w or love to not have to  stay  victimized and eventually heal at their own pace .

For now  here is a short  tip page on how  to keep  your children safe .

Friday, October 26

awareness,sexual abuse and more talk about sex

When there is a  problem people  need to first  recognize it , identify it  and eventually work to find  solution(s) to  it .

We see at Exodus cry our  website is here  the  foundation of prayer a commitment to abolishing sex slavery through Christ-centered prevention, intervention, and holistic restoration for trafficking victims are the  keys .Here is  our trailer  that has won over 11 national and international awards

Christians  may want to look at our   video here   as  to why modern day slavery is real and the topic  simply can not be avoided .

 ~~ Even if you  consider  yourself  to have no religious  affiliation  or belief please do not stop reading ~ ~~ This  blog is not   to set  judgement  on you  .It is to  provide  you  with good options, support and  information ....

The facts  are chilling  : 1 out of  3  girls  will experience  some sort of  sexual abuse  in her lifetime .  For  boys  1 out of 6  will  experience it .
Men  can find help with us confidentially  or  you can go here . This is a  highly recommended website  that helps men  on their  first  steps  to  resolving the trauma  of sexual abuse

Sexual abuse  is not a topic  that many people are publicly  willing to discuss and there are many reasons  for this .
For many people there is the stimgma of  wondering or fearing what others will think of them .  'It was my  fault ' . '' I  should not have  been where I was  or  doing what I was doing  and therefore  it  was my fault ''.
Children  can never  consent to  sex and therefore  sexual abuse is  a  crime and should always be reported .

In fact , at any age,  no one should be trapped  or stay  in this mode  of self blame ; it  never  gets  the gut level emotions resolved .
The rational mind  will  hopefully speak to you   and say '' It was never  my fault and I did  not do anything to bring   the event(s)  that happened to me upon myself ''...Eventually --  you will get to the  point where  you  can go on , get your grief  out  and truly  live again .It is  possible .
(This author  knows it is )

When a woman , man , girl or boy  is raped  it is a  crime of  power, humiliation , manipulation and it is a violent expression of anger  on the part  of  the  perpetrator . It  does not matter  what the person  was doing , what they looked like or the  place where it happened . It is a  crime and should always be looked at  it  as such ! Women  up to the ages  of  82  have been  raped  and men are  also  raped . No one 'asks  for it '....

A problem  that is very common  is the  acceptance  and  willingness  for people to  look at pornography  . The statistics are  available and the proof is this : The longer  someone looks at porn  the  more violent they  have  the propensity  to come , to commit crimes , ruin their  careers , relationships  and family .
Pornography , people might argue  is not  ''that  bad '' as long as it does not affect my life .  The facts  are that  porn is not an enhancement  to  a marriage and it also has stats  that  it causes  a  woman  or man to be unable  to graft  a long lasting  and meaningful  relationship . It degrades  women  to body parts  and sends a  silent message  they are not  wanted for good characteristics  such a  kind  heart or  intelligent . Pornography is  fantasy  and many turn into violent  fantasies that  eventually harm and or or get  people murdered . Porn is a huge problem in the military  and  the facts remain  that this also  simply can not go unaddressed . Even on Stars and Stripes   there  are  'articles ' where  an adviser  gives men  'tips  '  to make their marriage  better by using types or porn  (I wonder  how the wives really   about that ) and various  things ...
You  can find the facts and get  help here 

People might laugh  and joke  at what Hugh  Grant  did when  he was caught  and arrested  for soliciting  a prostitute  in  Los  Angeles . But  you must  remember  that  that put a mark on his career  and the woman he picked up  was  a very addicted  drug addict and prostitution is never a  victimless crime . I have often wondered  how  Divine Brown is  doing today ......
Jerry  Sandusky  used pornography to  groom his victims as well as Luis Skip Reeville  did .
A pretty case  was Ted  Bundy .Another  was  Danny Rolling , and yet another  was  Arlene Warnos who was eventually  sentenced  to death  for murdering  johns  that she and her partner  picked up  while she worked as a prostitute .

I once  saw a post  on a friends  Facebook  page ( that  advocated a  former presidential  nominee and his wanting  to legalize  prostitution as part of his platform ) where he typed : ''I  can't see it  being so  wrong  if a man wants to  get a blow  job '.. I don't   think his  wife  would have seen it quite that  way  I remember thinking .

People  will  somethings forget  the  things that  you did  to them , but many will never  forget the way that  you  helped  them feel about themselves .The words  that you use  weather  good ,  kind , reckless or   genuine matter .

If you  ever  need help  and  or  simply need someone  to listen  you may email me  and I will get back to you . I do not  do male counselling  but I do and have spoken  with ladies  .

Thanks  for reading


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